THE UNIQUE FACTS ABOUT JAPANESE LIFE
Hi
guys, welcome back again on my blog. As usual, here I’ll discuss about Japan ,
especially about family life in Japan. Today, I’m going to tell you about ”The
Unique Facts About Japanese Life”. Never get bored knowing various unique
things about Japan. Japan is a country that is quite unique compared to other
countries, one of which is about people's lives and family life in Japan. So,
when compared to Japanese family life and Indonesian people, there are some things that are
similar. Why did it happen? Because maybe in my opinion, Indonesia is a former
colony of Japanese people, that's why there are some things that are a bit
similar between Japanese people's lives with Indonesian people’s lives. But for
some of these, there is a little different between Indonesia and Japan even for
countries around the world because some of these things only exist in Japan. Do
you know what? Lets get it.
Here
are some of the unique facts of Japanese life:
1. Free Sex in Teenager
Free
sex is the free sex of many people and is an immoral, blatant and unashamed act
driven by sexual lust that is not integrated, not sold and is not fair. This
section's behavior includes several forms, namely hugging, kissing, fingering the
body and intercourse. Who doesn't know that Japan is a country that is quite
famous for sex, even in Japan selling condoms is very free and not surprising.
In fact, many people support this because the sex needs, there are quite high,
so they don't want many people there to get AIDS and HIV because they sell
condoms openly to avoid illness.
Another
unique fact is that school children, especially girls at the junior high school
level who go to high school level, will be embarrassed and ridiculed by their
school friends if they are still virgins. So, school children at this junior
high school level will release their virginity at the end of junior high school
level or at the beginning of high school level. And what makes it surprising
were that their parents knew and were not angry if they were not virgins when
they were in junior high school. that's the culture that happened in Japan,
people are used to hearing that and it's not strange for them.
2.
Hikikomori
According
to the Wikipedia, Hikikomori (引 き
こ も
り,
ひ き
こ も
り,
or 引 き
籠 も
り,
literal meaning: withdrawal, self-confinement) is a Japanese term for a
phenomenon among teenagers or young adults in Japan who withdraw and confine
themselves to social life. So usually the child who experiences this Hikikomori
is either a woman or a man, they will withdraw themselves from the social
environment and do not want to socialize with the outside world. They will stay
at home and are very dependent on their parents. For children who experience
this Hikikomori, both women and men, this can happen to them because of the
extreme pressure of expectations from parents and the burden of economic
responsibility as well as fear of failure which can be associated with expectations
of pressure. A study released some time ago revealed that around 541,000
Japanese people opened 15-39 years of avoiding social contact and locked
themselves in their homes. This figure declined slightly compared to a survey
conducted by the Japanese government in 2010 which stated that 696,000 people
chose to shut themselves up in their homes. And in my opinion, why do suicides
often occur in Japan, because they usually prioritize their self-esteem. So
when they feel their self-esteem has fallen some of them will usually choose
and decide to commit suicide. So because of that, Japan has enough suicides,
even in Japan there is the best suicide spot, like in the Aokigahara forest.
3.
Adopt
Children
There
are 98 percent of Japanese people adopt children aged 20-30 years. There is a
custom for Japanese people in Japan where they will adopt adult boys, both
within the family and outside. Most families do not have male heirs or have no
sons at all, they will adopt their closest male relatives. In fact, they can
also marry one daughter to marry a chosen man to keep the business going well.
This has even been done for years. The percentage of adult male adoption is
around 98 percent. Again, on average, Japanese people will maintain their
self-esteem or their family so as not to be ashamed of others. So they are
willing to marry off their children even though their children don't like each
other.
So
some of the things mentioned above must have concern between children and
parents and also with the environment around us. Because socialization is
needed for our lives, because we are social beings.
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